A woman in the olden times wasn’t considered a goodly
marriageable person without a nice ‘ caboose’. Truth is, bigger hips help with
childbearing for sure, but also help as a solid base for grounding the energies
of our beloved Gaia….this is what I have been doing without even knowing it,
and I bet you have been doing it too.
BIG bums can make women healthier; scientists have claimed.
A bulky backside is much healthier than a spilling-over
stomach and can even help combat heart disease and high cholesterol, research
has shown…. plus…. Bottom fat helps to reduce cholesterol and the risk of
This is believed to be because ‘adipose tissue’ – found in
the backside -catches harmful fatty particles – preventing them making their
way to the heart.
This is because women with the body trait produce more of
the hormone that processes sugar and regulates weight.
“Fat around the hips and thighs is good for you but
around the tummy is bad.”
So, you are all good as far as I am concerned, AND as far
as science is concerned!
Despite what is happening in your life right now…..please remember this:
A lot of people love you more than words can say…..
I have met quite a few people over the years who seem to be stuck where they are.
They talk about the same problems that reoccur for them…..over and over.
They talk about the same people who irritate them….day after day.
They complain about their job….or their lack of money…..time after time.
They worry continuously…..and seem to have burden after burden heaped on their shoulders.
They literally can NOT see the woods for all the trees in their way.
Having talked to these often lovely people…they just cannot see what is stopping them from progressing in their lives. They FEEL every single thing….and struggle with it…..and find it soooo difficult to let ANYTHING just go….and release!
And, they seem to take it all very personally; so that often, when you may present them with an idea that may possibly be of value to them, or even a solution, they cannot hear or take on board what you are saying or offering.
This is a shame….and so sad.
I realise that for every single difficulty….there is absolutely a solution…BUT, we need to be open and willing to looking for a way OUT.
When you are stuck….it simply means that you are feeling a lack….possibly a lack of self worth, or self empowerment, or self love or self awareness…..an awareness that YOU are in charge of YOU!
YOU are the creator of your life…in every way….for every day.
Now, this statement is a lot to take in….particularly if you are feeling so down on yourself because you are stuck, or not coping, or not succeeding, or not happy with your lot in life, and not feeling like you are loved….just for who you are.
Well, I am here to tell you that there is a way out of all of this!
Get a small mirror that you can see your beautiful eyes in. ( I use my rear view mirror when I am at lights and speak the words then.)
Hold it up, and say the following:
I am in charge of ME.
I have a voice….that needs to be heard.
I can change the way I have been thinking, and try something new….today.
I can create a new pathway for my life….anytime I choose to do so.
I am successful.
I am loved, even by people I meet as I go about my day to day life.
I value and appreciate everyone in my life who values and appreciates me.
I am thankful….for everything and everyone.
I am courageous….more than I thought I ever could be.
I love and accept myself just the way I am.
I allow myself to SHINE….and sparkle.
My intent is to open my heart.
My intent is to free my mind and my body, from all negative emotions and fears.
My intent is to feel good.
My Spirit works with the All That Is, and connects me to such wonderful energy that flows through me always, even when I do not notice it or pay it any attention, it just IS.
I am that I am.
I am confident.
I am well.
Please realise that we are all energy….even when we break down a body into skin, tissues, organs, cells, molecules, and atoms, and then energy within THAT.
WE are energy.
In order to change the energies around us, we can simply replace what we are telling ourselves that we DON’T WANT….and by repeating the above whilst looking into a little mirror….we can literally change the communicator strands of our DNA, and raise ourselves UP into health, wealth and self empowerment and wellness on all levels…and instead speak of what WE DO WANT.
What you think about….you bring about.
So, what are you thinking right now? Still feeling disempowered and stuck?
Take a long, slow, deep breath in……and out…..and in…..and out…..and in…….and out…..
and tell yourself EVERYTHING GOES RIGHT FOR ME! Do this often throughout your day, and you may just surprise yourself at how great things are becoming!
You have heard me say 2019 is a year of renewal. Yet, this is also a year of karmic closures and endings. You are bringing new aspects of yourself into the world. To do that, you must release yourself from past beliefs, relationships and circumstances that no longer nourish your soul.
Karmic Clearing for New Beginnings….this starts not only with YOU, but with what and who you are surrounded with in your life!
Check out your bedroom for instance, and each drawer, and your wardrobe. Is there ANYTHING in here that is not serving you and your highest good? Please let go of STUFF that is cluttering up YOU in the NOW, that is from that past. This includes keeping clothes that ‘I might fit back into one day’, or clothes that you used to wear and love, and you keep, but they have outlived their use and now need to be donated to someone who can use them…shoes also fall into this category.
Now, go into your kitchen. Each drawer and cupboard in here holds things. Are they all things which you have absolutely used in the last three months? Are you simply storing them? Only keep that which you regularly use. There is no need to keep things for a special occasion…your life is an occasion….use it because it IS SPECIAL…..and enjoy it! Everyday! Otherwise, if it is simply taking up space, go through each drawer one at a time, and empty it of anything you don’t use.
I remember when my Mother had passed away and my Dad moved house, all of us children helped in the move and in clearing out that which Mum had kept in their cupboards….and there were new towels in there, and sheets and so many ‘special’ things that NEVER got used, or appreciated, because they were TOO GOOD. We girls decided they needed to see the light of day, and helped DAD get rid of his old tatty towels and replace them with the new ones, and we encouraged him to start using so many other TOO GOOD TO USE things, and finally get some enjoyment from them!
Do the same with your home office. You are required to keep copies of documents that support your tax form that is filed each year. In Australia it used to be that you needed to keep these for 7 years, now it is 4 years. So, go back, and get rid of that which you no longer need to keep. Also declutter your paperwork. If there is anything that can be stored instead on a computer and then onto a separate hard drive that you continually back up from your computer, and thereby keep a record of digitally instead of physically; please look into this, and see what you can do.
Do 15 minutes a day towards your goal of clearing and don’t overwhelm yourself all at once!
There may be toxic people in your life. Only YOU can determine which people around you love and support you wholeheartedly, and which ones disempower you just with a remark or a feeling you get from them. Try to weed out those ‘friends’ who are not really there for you – you will know who they are – and do your best to avoid being their doormat or the person they download all THEIR shit onto! It is time to do this.
This Karmic Clearing of all things and people from your life is something only you can do…although when you have boxes of heavy books to carry out to donate to the local charity, please ask for help so you don’t have to do it all by yourself!
Choose when to do each room in your house, and THEN break it down into smaller sections. Don’t go into overwhelm, just do 15 minutes a day, set a kitchen timer to help, and GO for it! The same goes for your garage, your workspace or wherever it is that you need to clear out the past….just to make way for a lighter, brighter and easier life. There is less dusting to do and less maintenance when you clear out…all good!
The emotional clearing may take longer, but if you find yourself feeling locked into a cycle of negativity, or anxiety, get help from a practitioner or counsellor if necessary, but DO something to break your old patterning and habitual worrying. Try to be positive. Smile in the mirror when you walk past….and say ‘I like you’ to yourself!
Hang out only with those kind people who love, nourish and support you positively. Have you found yourself in a group of ‘friends’ who all seem to speak about one calamity or another, or that continue to gossip about others? It does your heart so much good to hang out instead with people who cherish you, and that make you smile. Your choice.
And I know I have made this sound simplistic, and it definitely is not, especially if the ‘bane of your life’ is a relative or parent or sibling. All I can say from experience is that if someone is ‘in my space’ and I do not feel great when I am around them, then I use this saying; ‘I wish you well….and I wish you on your way.’ Another thing you can do with hurtful people is to freeze them out….literally….write their name and place that piece of paper in your freezer with your intent to freeze them out of your life…and it works!
I hope I have at least given you some ideas in order for you to be more able to RENEW in this year of renewal 2019. To move forward, sometimes we need to clear out that which no longer serves us, so just do your best.
When you have cleared, and closed doors on emotions or people, notice how much ‘lighter’ you and your home or workspace or garage feels! It feels emptier but sooo much better too. Remember too that the Universe abhors a vacuum, so when you clear out, please replace the energy of the room with better free-flowing 100% energetic light energy. Just ask and assume it is done.
You can also help in clearing a room of ‘negative energies or feelings’ by using dried sage in a ceramic bowl and with a large feather brushing it into all the corners of each room. This also works well. If you wish, you can simply use a saucepan with a wooden spoon to bang in each corner and thereby clear those unwanted energies. Sometimes I do this after I have visitors and I feel that my space was not mine anymore after their visit….it’s an energy feeling…and so I clear the rooms out, and I feel better once again. Easy to do.
Let’s all make an energetic change….even a small one…and lighten our places within….and without….and FEEL our way into the future with EASE!
Affirmations….ever tried them? Did they help? Or did you feel that you were just fooling yourself?
If you use affirmations that do not make you feel good and that you don’t actually believe in, try something else instead…Be honest. Try starting with gratitude. Anything that makes you feel good. When you already are in a good feeling state of high vibration you can try more direct affirmations. Then it will be easier to believe them, because you know that you are worthy and capable of manifesting whatever you desire.
We are governed by our collective belief systems, created over thousands of years. We live very similar lives much because of these belief systems.
We are situationally focused. We try to control our environment, our circumstances.
By being in a super meditative state, entirely vibrationally focused instead of situationally focused, we have no limits.
Is this even relevant to think about?
For many people it may not resonate at all.
Focus on what is working and notice how you can attract certain things into your life.
Life is a process of evolution and learning and in the big picture we can’t go wrong….just please try it…try to focus on what expands your heart and soul, and don’t let a day go by without DOING something…anything….that brings your Soul JOY!
Today I wish to speak of our thoughts, and our intentions.
We need to realise that WE are creators. We create with each thought we have, and we do have around 60,000 of these a day!
Sometimes our thoughts are stuck in a repeating pattern. This pattern can be a wonderful manifesting positivity pattern, or it could adversely be a ‘lack’ pattern. These are just a couple of examples, and I am sure you could think of so much more. Think of a coin, which has two sides. When we are unsure of which path to take, we can certainly flip that coin and decided on a path just by going with whatever side of the coin that has fallen. OR, we can choose with intent.
However, many of us are just choosing by default without even realising that we are doing so. We merely go along from day to day, seeing each day as in a pattern that is repeating, and sometimes that pattern is very stressful, full of doubt, and lacking in enthusiasm or indeed, any JOY at all.
Our intent, and our thoughts are precious. We need to be aware. We need to understand what we are thinking and focussing on is what we will bring into our lives each moment of each day.
Have you ever noticed that when you focus on something, suddenly things start to happen around you that relate to it? Synchronicities start to arrive, to pop up unexpectedly; and people or situations come that seem to be there to help you achieve your goal.
This all happens because YOU ‘put it out there’.
Do you even realise that you are creating these thoughts and intentions each moment? Or are you one of those people who walk ‘unaware’ and blindfolded through their lives thinking that their lives are miserable, they can’t get ahead, they are all alone, they are sad because nothing seems to be going right, they are behind the eight ball in their relationships or their work, they don’t seem to be moving forward at all, they feel anxious all the time and afraid….and that no-one else has it as bad as they do?
Trust me, all of us go through ‘stuff’. If we had finished with all the learning and experiencing that our Soul wanted to connect with by coming to Earth School in the first place, then I assure you that you would no longer be here. Take it as a given then, that you are still here, doing what you can, with what you have, from where you currently are….because your Soul still has change to experience and learning to realise.
You need to consciously set your intentions each day. Get a diary. At the beginning of each day, write some intentions and aspirations down. Five should do, or more if you wish. What do you wish to accomplish today? Ask yourself, and write some answers. At the end of each day, pat yourself on the back for what you have achieved, give thanks to the Universe for each blessing, and smile that, even though you may have had a ‘tough’ or difficult day; some things WERE done, and you DID climb a little higher out of your muddy life; even if it was only just a bit.
Then, write down five things you were grateful for in your day before you go to sleep. These positive thoughts just before you rest are what you take with you into the dream state, and it is what you will be focussing on creating more of when you awaken the next day! So, choose well.
I know someone who ‘Blu tacked’ some money on their ceiling, so this was the last thing they saw at night before they turned off the light, and the first thing they saw in the morning. They visualised themselves literally raking up piles of money, and smiling the whole time, being grateful for this abundance that seems to be coming from even the most unusual of places. This is powerful stuff.
It works. Try it.
Remember to focus only on what you “Do Want”, not on grumbling about ‘What you Don’t Want”.
So, set your intention, and start to emanate it out, just like our Sun radiates its warmth out. It is like rays of energy being sent out all around us. Start emitting your intention rather than just absorbing the frequencies that are currently around you. Our intention is ‘felt’, by everyone and everything we will come into contact with….one step before it actually becomes reality. It is the energy behind creation….and WE create it!
So, if you have areas of your life where your intentions and focus have been ‘wrecking havoc’, and you have been feeling down, then you need to realise that YOU have the power to change it all, just by changing your thoughts and intentions.
Don’t be the wrecking ball in your own life….be the creative conscious ray of energy that flows through everything….and be joyful.
I have just returned from watching “Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them” the movie by J.K. Rowling. I found it fascinating and funny and it held lots of little heart truths and knowings.
Your own Inner Wizard or Witch is itching to come out and play! For me, the movie brought out the inner delight you can get from something out of the ordinary that can move you away from any dreary reality we may currently be experiencing; and into a world where possibilities DO exist!
What if it is all true? What if WE determine what occurs around us? What if magic is all around us? AND, all we have to do is tap into it, when we believe….
Your Inner Witch or Wizard can help you in moving forward….just let him or her out to play!
We all possess these ‘hidden’ or perhaps unacknowledged abilities and gifts; it’s just that some of us use them, and others do not. Use your heart knowing. Listen. Don’t just assume that THIS is all there is, or that things cannot change, or that you are stuck somewhere in a situation that definitely does NOT bring you joy! You have a choice. I look for truth, and a true path to follow as I listen to my heart….it is simple….just tune in…You DO know what makes you happy. You DO know what it would take for your world to be abracadabra’d into something special.
Just pay attention to those little feelings you get, that just pop up, just before your rational mind takes over. It isn’t complicated.
Life can be magical and exciting, just be decisive when you need to and take action when the need arises; asking for the strength to stand in what you know. You know what you know….your heart tells you so….it is a knowing.
Allow the magic of the Wizard or the Witch to flow through you with confidence! Let your heart speak….and be heard!