Why me? Why now?



So often we wonder about the ‘whys’ in life….

Why did this happen? Why me? Why can’t I fix this? Why am I always in the wrong place at the wrong time?  But, there is a secret that wise people know…

Bumps in the road are an inevitable part of life that soften us, make us grow, and bestow upon us the virtue of compassion.

Often, it is only with the passing of time that it becomes clear that the cloud really DID have a silver lining!

Now, we have more wisdom, strength and hope to share. And, at last, we understand the true meaning of the phrase….

Everything happens for a reason…..

Sometimes you think ‘Why do bad things happen to good people?’  This question may seem baffling, but it really isn’t . As a Soul that lives within a physical body and that wants to experience lots of different scenarios played out over that Soul’s lifetime whilst here on Earth; it seems plausible that what we may perceive as something random occuring to a Soul, may not be…

It may simply be that it was that Soul’s choice,..

I know this may be hard to understand, but for anyone to learn and grow in wisdom and strength and understanding, they need to go through some ‘hardships’ so they can tell the difference between feeling good and feeling bad.

We create our lives every single day. We make choices every day to be happy and have a great day, or not! We actually do control every aspect of our lives. If we find ourselves in a situation that is less than desirable whether it is in relation to our work, business colleagues, friends, family or other relationships or our homes; then it has occurred because we were on the same frequency as that event.

It is like the Law of Gravity…it works…every single day. It never has a day off, or forgets to apply gravity to a single person, or a tree; so that they go floating off into space; does it? So too, there is a vibrational law that says we operate on different frequencies for different situations and that we have our different feelings about things all around us all the time – and it says, ‘We attract into our lives that which we are vibrating in resonance with’.  Harmony abounds – even when it causes us pain; whether that pain is physical such as an accident or illness, or whether that pain is emotional such as mental illness or stresses or heartfelt anguish. The law is absolute. For ‘bad’ things to happen, we MUST be on that frequency for it to occur. ( So, too, for GOOD things to happen; we just have to be on the frequency for this to occur!)

So, ‘Why me?’

It, believe it or not; was a choice.

The one thing I know absolutely is that we can ALWAYS choose again. We have freewill in every single occurrence in our lives! We get to choose everything!

So, with the Angels help, I CHOOSE to understand that things DO happen for a reason, and once I have worked out what and why that reason is; I can move forward and choose again.

Life was not really meant to be simple. But, it can be glorious. Choose to look for other options whenever you personally are feeling stuck. There are literally signs everywhere. Open your eyes, open your heart to possibilities. Try not to get stuck in the ‘blame’ game, or the victim game. Because you really are caught up in being a victim if you continually ask, ‘Why me?’ ‘Why now?’

Your sacred heart space is the gateway to all awareness, wellbeing and the oneness with all. By placing your awareness IN your heart, you will naturally dwell in the synchronicities of now…. 

I wish you resolve and inner strength and lots of Angelic helpers as well (Just ask!)

It really is ALL good!


Barbara White Wolf


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About spirited13

Hi! I have been a qualified practitioner in the natural health field for over 35 years. I use Homoeopathy, The Liquid Crystals, Native American Energy Healing, EFT, Australian Bush Flower Essences, Bach Remedies, Ancient Essences, Body Psychometry and Face Reading, Iridology, Touch for Health, Light Life Tools, and Feng Shui. I am a Master/Teacher of Usui Reiki, Angelic Reiki and Seichim. I also hold weekly Spiritual Wisdom meetings, with MIND-BODY-SPIRIT topics and Meditation and healing. I love helping people find their wellness within, because within us is where the real work takes place for us to find our health, and our happiness. For everyone that comes to see me different information will come depending upon what is needed from each modality that I currently use. All I really do is help you with your energy. We are all made of energy and when it is in a state of imbalance then we feel unwell. This can occur in our physical, emotional, mental or spiritual states. The key for many is to look for why things happen, not just a quick fix. Sometimes fears contribute to what is occurring. Know that it is okay to let go of things in our subconscious in order to move forward and I try to help you with this. The key is to look for what you have gained from this particular situation, so you no longer repeat it again. I appreciate all of you who are looking for that spark of whatever is seemingly missing or lost within you. You are all amazing if you will only believe in yourselves. Sending Many Blessings to All, Hugs of Light, Barbara xxx
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