This is so simple…yet we sometimes make it more complicated don’t we?
I can’t do this, because I have to do that first…
I cannot find time to do that….I am too busy….
I have no money to do the things I really want to do….
I feel that others deserve it more than I do…I so want to help others (Instead of myself….Hmm)….
I can’t do something for myself, everyone else needs me…
I think I would be afraid to venture out on my own….
I am certain I can’t do that today….I have much more important stuff to do…
I think that I should wait….(What for?)
Anyway, you get the picture….
We all tend to want to be the best we can, even if we lose ourselves along the way. We do for others, put them first, and forget about US! We let others tell us what we should be doing, and we happily whinge about lack of this or that, which stops us from moving forward in our lives.
Life should be about JOY! Sheer abandon! If you don’t do this even SOMETIMES, then you diminish YOU….
Please, sit, and listen to what your heart REALLY desires….not what others desire for you. (Are you living your partner’s dream?) Then, MAKE time; be DEFINITE that you DESERVE that break, that holiday, that different way of doing or being!
And remember to LOVE YOURSELF…and be gentle with you….and SMILE!
Have a stupendous joy ride today…go for a roll down the hill! Take your shoes off and feel the grass, and sing in the rain, whilst dancing in muddy puddles!
Life can be bliss….go find yours!
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